The fallacy of appeal to vanity occurs when an arguer sets up the listener to feel flattered if they accept a proposal, and conversely, shamed if they do not.

Here is an example:

"A warm-hearted person like yourself will surely want to contribute to our charity drive."

This implies that if you make a donation, you are warm-hearted, and if you don't, then you are cold-hearted.

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